A: is he caring?
B: Caring? How?
A: Spend time with you, do what is best for you, plan ahead for both of you?
B: yeah..i think so (confused)
A: okay...tell me what happen on your birthday? what did he do when you are sick?
If having him in your life doesn't change a thing. You still do the things you used to do. You still handle problems the way you did.
Why do you need that extra person in your life?