Let Love Make You A Better Person

Let love make you believe. Despite the suffering and brokenness , know that there are people who still hold on to hope. the goodness may not always be seen in the surface, but it will always find a way to emerge and overcome pain. it's hard to find the good when you're stuck between different battles, but when you are beaming with love for yourself, for your significant other, for your family and friends, it helps you to look at the world in a different light.

Let love be the most influential force in your life to make you and those around you, better. the kind that makes you share what you possess because you don't want to see the people around you be deprived of what they deserve. have a heart big enough that it influences other people to touch lives as well. it's too often that the little things in life are ignored when it should be the most appreciated.

Let love make you soft like how you should be, but hard when you need to be. the one that pushes you to forgive the people who have hurt you, but does not fool you to give chances to those who are not worthy Mistakes are inevitable but do it too many times and it becomes a choice. It's important to know who to keep and who to set free, because at the end of the day, it's you who will feel the joy or the pang of sadness.

Let love fill you with excitement that makes your heart beat faster than normal. it's good for the soul to have something to look forward to. Making plans, enjoying the moment and reminiscing what happened during the day or night - these are three of the best things done with people you love dearly. time is not meant to be wasted and places to be unexplored.

Let love leave no room for lies and doubts. it should be the kind of relationship that makes you look at the person highly and respect him for respecting you. the worst thing you can do to a person is to break their trust, and leave them with an aching heart and a mind spinning out of control. It's important to have a strong sense of self-worth, but any relationship - whether platonic, romantic , or familial - has the power to destroy it through lies and doubts.

Let love heighten your emotions. whether you like it not, some things become a big deal even if it shouldn't be. But just as much as you are aggravated with petty misunderstandings, the small gestures have the ability to make you ridiculously smile and turn your day better. both negative feelings and positive feelings deeply affect you when the person matters to you.

and lastly, let love remain fierce. never forget to keep maintaining and strengthening what you have because when you're holding a great thing. It's your responsibility to treasure it unless you want to regret for years A love, whether platonic, romantic or familial, should be real, passionate and long-lasting and never mixed with a tinge of mediocrity.

Doesn't make sense

Something strange is happening to me...

I keep eating up a word when posting on facebook or composing an email.

I either missed out a word....or added another word in .....or mispelled the word.

Upon noticing my carelessness, i constantly check on everything i wrote....but still, i'll overlook the mistake. Can somebody please help me? Am i having some serious problem?

It is such a shameful event where it gives the impression of poor education. I hope silly bunny wouldnt mind reading something that doesnt make sense.

Simple but contented

Since young, i have always wanted a fairytale marriage...a romantic relationship. My mom used to tell me how smart...how pretty i am...that i deserve only the best guy.

My first relationship during F6, he gave me his time...send me handmade cards and secret message....but he left me

Second relationship before Uni, he brought me romantic restaurants, listen to jazz, meet different people, handmade cards, play and sing for me....he is too good to be true. He is a busy man...always occupied.i need to be absolutely independent most of the time. I need to keep up with the latest news, technology and knowledge...just to sail 2 steps behind him. I was tired of keeping up....i walked away.

Third relationship during my post grad, he is a friend for 8 years. I was touched by his perseverance, determination and well tempered. He knows i like to try new things, he will try his best to fill my weekends with activitives, bring me surprises, cook together ( i love cooking, but i enjoy watching him eat), be as romantic as he can be, travelling together, buy me gifts. However, i couldn't stand his love for football and i make a fuss over his past. I dont want to be the one who stays at home, while he enjoys the game. I dont deserve him....... i walked away

Fourth relationship, right from the start i knew it is wrong. Everyone around me , warned me not to get involved. His sweeten words and moves, makes me fall deeper into him. Families and friends are disappointed at me decision. I stayed firm and stuborn. I changed from demanding to expecting nothing. I changed from bad tempered to basically no temper. Slowly, i realize that i do not have much to talk, no freedom, no time...i live for him. Guess i have become a boring person, to work during weekdays and clean the house during weekends.....he left me

If you were to ask me what my current situation is..... i'll say ...he is imperfectly perfect.  He doesnt made cards for me, he has no time, definitely not a romantic guy, he hates going out, we dont post couple photos in facebook....at times, I'll laugh to myself , " Am I really in a relationship?". This is so different. Most of the time i think i heard tiny voices saying ,"He is different , that makes this relationship a treasured and lasting one." I recognizes the voice of the Holy Spirit.

*AMEN*